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  • author ( 52, woman | Biloxi, MS, USA )

    You should be willing to fly here. You have the means, and the flexibility. Anything worth having is worth the effort. There are many different options for things to do here, but the most important as...  see more >>

  • author ( 57, woman | Guildford, England - Surrey, GBR )

    Instead of entertainment such as the movies or dinner in a restaurant I'd like to go out and do an activity together. For instance we could clean up a beach or we could go litter picking in a local na...  see more >>

  • author ( 40, woman | San Francisco, CA, USA )

    I've never taken a cooking class. That would be super fun, relaxed, and interactive. Plus, we'd get to feed each other something delicious (I hope, lol). I love to dance, so a dance lesson would be ri...  see more >>

  • author ( 71, man | Somis, CA, USA )

    We hop on a plane to Paris. There, we stroll the citys streets and plazas. As evening falls, we have dinner by candlelight atop the Eiffel Tower as Andrea Bocelli serenades us. That, or we can just gr...  see more >>

  • author ( 63, man | Melbourne, FL, USA )

    Even if we live too far apart for a spontaneous date during the week, I like to dress nicely for a video date complete with wine and a cheese tray. We both get the same book and take turns reading it...  see more >>

  • author ( 53, woman | San Jose, CA, USA )

    A first date idea for me could include any of the following: meeting for a morning cup of coffee or breakfast, a day at the zoo or a stroll in nature, meeting up for drinks, or something spontaneous/d...  see more >>

  • author ( 41, woman | Haernoesands Kommun, Vasternorrlands Lan, Sweden )

    Take me out on a picnic With some focus on a planned daytime or night time, to show you hade time for me for give your energy to meet me on my level. Offcourse I have dreams about my soulmate taking m...  see more >>

  • author ( 61, man | Vero Beach, FL, USA )

    What are dates that make a difference? I thought all dates make a difference!! So maybe we can try a date that makes a mini difference so no one gets too giddy or might not be too devastated if the da...  see more >>

  • author ( 28, woman | Houston, TX, USA )

    Something fun and memorable so that even if the connection just isn't there, we both still have a positive experience! Life is too short to waste after all. And if it is community-service related and...  see more >>

  • author ( 52, woman | State College, PA, USA )

    We should take a hike, fight a bear together. Why? Because this was my Covid fitness goal - to get to the level where I can punch a bear and live. Show me your ability to work together and persevere a...  see more >>

  • author ( 71, man | Albuquerque, NM, USA )

    Since flying to somewhere exotic is still a bit ambitious, lets start things off the old-fashioned way, with coffee and good conversation. Or I also know some scenic trails if a hike sounds good to yo...  see more >>

  • author ( 28, woman | New York, NY, USA )

    A man who takes control and surprises me is always fine with me. Taking me somewhere unique. somewhere beautiful outside like the beach or mountains, then going out to eat somewhere nice that evening.

  • author ( 33, woman | Los Angeles, CA, USA )

    I am very easy going and up for just about anything! For the first date I'd definitely want to do something where there's lots of people, because I met you on the internet..hahah!

  • author ( 51, woman | Malibu, CA, USA )

    Before I meet anyone on a first date, I like to know what we have in common and then go from there. A Pro game? If it's the rht team! Dinner date? At a super classy place. Golf? I'm from Palm Springs...  see more >>

  • author ( 43, man | San Bruno, CA, USA )

    I prefer to go on a date that has is more than just bouncing questions back and forth over drinks and a meal. I prefer to have long first dates if the conversation and the company is enjoyed by both p...  see more >>